What's Your Sexy?



What's your sexy, is a question that I like to ask women of all ages. I often wonder if living in the world that we do confuses women and girls as to what is a sexually empowered woman is all about. What if you could just stop for a moment and begin to ask yourself what it means for me to be truly sexually empowered? I wonder what your answer might be.

 For some, it may mean how they express themselves in the bedroom and the different flavors of energy that you express in a particular way. For others, there might be a much broader definition. such as what turns you on at any given moment. So it could be writing a blog, or dancing or being in nature or anything that is using your creative energy. Sex, of course, is part of that but it is not exclusive to that.

The New Standards of the Hook-up Generation

The hook-up culture today has morphed into an "anything goes" culture. Sexual identification has become more blurred and so sexual preferences are not so rigid as they once were. The new standard for women in their twenties seems to be embracing the "zipless fuck" of the women's lib generation, sex just for the pleasure of it. Nothing else is required or needed. Just sex for the sake of getting off. Romantic relationships aren't as important as they once were, falling in love a bit passe. But is this a good thing? I have heard women say that since men have always been the ones to love'm and leave'm that now it is their time to do the same. The table has turned and more and more young women are embracing the idea that sex is no more than a physical relationship of mutual pleasure.

If this is the new norm for our youth and for the millennials, I feel concerned that they will lose something very valuable...which is how to create and experience what it means to be an authentically powerful, sexually aware and savvy woman. A woman who embodies all of the qualities of her innate feminine qualities and her feminine sexual essence. This term was originally introduced to me by David Deida. I am adding to it and in some ways expanding his definition here.

 Your Feminine Sexual Essence is:
  • Your energetic availability
  • How safe do you feel in your body 
  • How self-confident do you feel in expressing your sexual personas
  • Your connection to your heart and how open you feel to connecting with others
  • Your connection with your emotional body
  • How centered and grounded do you feel in your body
  • Your authenticity in expressing yourself
It seems that these women have no context from which to live from and nothing to feel connected to that can show them how to embody these qualities, and that will also assist them in understanding what true feminine sexual power is.

 Being willing to explore your feminine sexual power, to learn how to understand it, how to use it with integrity, how to embody it with grace, and how to begin to own what I call your Sexual Presence is what I am here to offer.

 Don't you think it is time to be the change that we are all seeking to see happen in our world? Rather than go back to the old standard of acting more like a man, to stand in your authentic feminine power and begin to establish a new way, a new paradigm for all women and girls to grow into?


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Blessings,
Luminessa Enjara

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